Monday, June 04, 2007

Questions....

Hello All
How the hell is life treating you anyhow.

I got a lot to say
I have a lot going on right now
and I dont feel like being too personal - although I could really use your advice.
(Still contemplating because I've had enough exposure for the week)

Maybe a couple of questions would be better...

What would you do if you found out that your special someone was communicating with someone else?

What if you found out by checking their phone?

How would you reveal that you know - or think you know that something is going on?

What if they lie? or didnt tell the whole truth?

What if they dont lie? or didnt say anything?

What if they were so mad that you went through their phone?

What if they dont trust you?
What if you dont trust them?

What if feelings get hurt?
What if words are said that arent meant to be said?

Out of all of that - what if you never found the real issue?

How much time should a couple that has been together for over a year be spending with each other?
Is there a set time?
and yes, they live in the same city?

Do guys really act like a damn fool in the summer?

When do you stop compromising?
When do you continue?

What do you do when you are drifting away?

What do you say - when you've said - I'm not getting what I need from you?
What do you do when you keep getting blown off?

What consitutes ending a relationship?
What things can be forgiven?

How long should you wait for him/her - to grow up?
to realize?
to understand?
to find themselves?
to give back?

4 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Be WATER. Don't have set rules in any relationship because sooner or later you'll realize that no 2 situations are the same. But one things is an inalienable truth. Without trust any relationship is already dead. Don't waste anymore of your time running against a brick wall. Because you will eventually realize that this world is full of beautiful brothers and sister who feel like you. Make your next move your best move and find the 1....Peace and love sista

6/07/2007  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Stop dealing with this sh*t! You are too special and beautiful of a person to have to go through this.

What the heck are you doing??? Sit down and ask yourself that.....What the heck are you doing??

7/26/2007  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Men and Women have god given natural instincts. That gut feeling you get when something is just not right. To me...this problem is quite simple. Personally I think in your heart you already have the answer. You can choose to overlook the obvious or face it head on. What I or anyone else says doesn't really matter. What really matters is what do you want for yourself? If you want lies, deceit, lack of communication and the loss of trust. Than your off to a good start! Sometimes we make things much harder than they should be. I'm sure you know what you want from a relationship!! If your not getting that, then you need to communicate that to your partner. If that fails...then you can either accept how things are. (which is hard to do) Or you can move on, in search of someone better. Just an opinion from someone that use to know you. We had our difference, but overall you seemed like a decent person. I hope things workout for you...

Peace
"Lo"

9/18/2007  
Blogger Hamani said...

Thank you for all you comments, which I truly value. And I guess another thing is to not be afraid to share things about yourself (wheter good or bad) because the answers are out there

9/18/2007  

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